Alright, let me tell you about this Christmas thing I tried out. It was… eventful, to say the least.
So, it all started with this idea, right? I was thinking about how to spice things up, add a little… zest to the holidays. The usual Christmas stuff is cool, but I wanted something different. A bit naughty, maybe. You get the picture.
I brought it up with my partner. At first, she was a little surprised, to put it mildly. We talked about boundaries, safe words – you know, the responsible stuff. Communication is key, always gotta remember that.
We decided to go for it. Christmas Eve, after the family dinner and all the traditional stuff, we snuck off to the bedroom. I’d set the mood with some candles and soft music. Nothing too cheesy, just something that felt right.
I started with some light teasing, you know, building the anticipation. Then, I gently turned her over and… well, you can guess what happened next. I used my hand, started soft and then gradually increased the intensity. Kept checking in with her to make sure she was enjoying it, paying close attention to her reactions.
There were definitely some moans and groans involved. And some giggles too, because it was kinda silly, in a good way. We kept it relatively brief, didn’t want to overdo it. The point was to add a little excitement, not to turn it into some marathon session.
Afterward, we cuddled up and talked about it. She said she liked it, but also had some suggestions for next time. Always good to get feedback, right? We agreed that it was a fun way to add a little spice to Christmas, and that we should definitely do it again.
Overall, it was a positive experience. Definitely something different, and it brought us closer. But like I said, communication is key. Gotta make sure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves. Otherwise, it’s just not worth it.
- Talked about boundaries beforehand.
- Set the mood with candles and music.
- Started slow and gradually increased intensity.
- Checked in regularly.
- Cuddled and talked afterward.
Would I recommend it? Maybe. Depends on your relationship and what you’re both into. But if you’re looking to add a little excitement to the holidays, it’s definitely worth considering.
Just remember to be safe, be respectful, and most importantly, have fun!
