Okay, guys, let’s talk about winning. I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, and I want to share my process for how I “win at” things. It’s not rocket science, but it works for me.

First, I figure out what I want. Sounds simple, right? But you’d be surprised how many people don’t actually do this. For me, I wanted to be more organized. Clutter was driving me nuts, and I was wasting so much time looking for things. I couldn’t win if I continued that way.
So, I set a goal. Not just “be organized,” but something specific. I decided I wanted to have a clean desk by the end of the week. That’s something I could actually visualize and work towards.
Next, and this is key, I just started. I didn’t wait for the perfect moment or the perfect plan. I just began tossing things out, putting stuff away. It was messy at first, but I kept going. I cleaned my desk one step at a time.
I also broke it down into smaller steps. Instead of thinking “organize the whole room,” I focused on one area at a time. Today, it was the desk. Tomorrow, maybe the drawers. Small wins, you know?
- Set a goal. Figure out exactly what you want.
- Just start. Don’t overthink it.
- Break it down. Small steps are easier to manage.
- Keep going. Even when it gets tough.
- Celebrate the wins. No matter how small.
It was not easy. I found old papers, pens that didn’t work, and stuff I didn’t even remember owning. But I kept pushing. I put on some music, made some coffee, and just kept at it.

And you know what? By the end of the week, my desk was clean. I did a small test. It felt amazing! It wasn’t perfect, but it was a huge improvement. I felt like I had actually achieved something. So that was my win for the week.
And that’s pretty much it. That’s how I try to “win” at things. It’s not about being perfect or having all the answers. It’s about setting a goal, taking action, and not giving up. And honestly, it works for pretty much anything, whether it’s work, relationships, or just trying to get your life together.
So, yeah, if you take anything away from this, it’s this: just start. You’ll figure out the rest along the way. And remember to celebrate those little wins. They add up.